Wake the CEO when the team stalls, not only when tasks are zero

The bootstrap gate fired on goalCount > 0 && taskCount === 0, which
missed the common failure mode: every task stuck in_review or blocked
so the counter stays positive while no progress happens. The CEO
then waited for the normal timer interval to spot the stall.

Add countAdvancingTasksForCompany (todo + in_progress only) and gate
bootstrap on that. Also pull messages to the top of the timer wake
step list so an agent waking on the normal cadence doesn't skip over
unanswered peer DMs in favour of its own task work.

src/main/database-base.ts

@@ -285,6 +285,7 @@ export class AppDatabaseBase {
   listTasksForAssignees(companyId: string, assigneeIds: string[]) { return this.tasks.listTasksForAssignees(companyId, assigneeIds); }
   listReviewTasksForManager(managerId: string, companyId: string) { return this.tasks.listReviewTasksForManager(managerId, companyId); }
   countActiveTasksForCompany(companyId: string) { return this.tasks.countActiveTasksForCompany(companyId); }
+  countAdvancingTasksForCompany(companyId: string) { return this.tasks.countAdvancingTasksForCompany(companyId); }
   listChildTasks(parentId: string, companyId: string) { return this.tasks.listChildTasks(parentId, companyId); }
   advanceTaskStatus(taskId: string, newStatus: string, comment?: string) { return this.tasks.advanceTaskStatus(taskId, newStatus, comment); }
   setTaskRequiresUserReview(taskId: string, value: boolean) { return this.tasks.setTaskRequiresUserReview(taskId, value); }