Move message-*.ts into messaging/ subdir (N10)

Consolidate the two runtime messaging modules under src/main/messaging/. Storage stays in database/messages.ts — that is the SQL layer and belongs with the other DB modules; messaging/ covers the dispatch/normalize runtime around it.

- message-dispatch.ts -> messaging/dispatch.ts
- message-normalize.ts -> messaging/normalize.ts
- add messaging/index.ts barrel for future consumers (existing call sites import the concrete module path directly)
- 10 call sites updated across src/main and tests

src/main/automation/automation-actions.ts

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 import type { AppDatabase } from "../database";
 import type { AutomationAction, DesktopEvent } from "@shared/types";
-import { dispatchAgentMessage } from "../message-dispatch";
+import { dispatchAgentMessage } from "../messaging/dispatch";
 import { validateTaskCreation } from "../task-quality-gates";
 import type { AutomationEventContext } from "./types";
 import { parseActionConfig, type AutomationActionConfigMap } from "./automation-action-schemas";