Keep the vectors beside the atoms instead of rebuilding them per query

The dense leg used to be a pair of files next to the database: a full .npy
re-encoded from every atom, re-normalized on every query, and stale the moment
anything was ingested. It is now a vec0 table inside the same SQLite file,
written in the same transaction as the atom it describes, so a memory is
queryable the instant it is remembered.

- vector_index.py maintains the table; the writer inserts, the reader never
  rebuilds. A repair scan (ely-eye build-dense-index) catches what a crash hid,
  and it is not on the search path.
- Ranking stays in the engine; every boundary (closed, retired, not yet true,
  another holder's private memory, the mounted cartridge) is checked once against
  the atoms table afterwards. A visibility subquery inside the KNN cost 48.9s on
  153,857 vectors; the same check over 200 candidates costs 0.2ms. When the
  boundaries reject enough candidates the ask widens once, never twice.
- The Go mirror and the web panel carry the new status fields.
- bench/dense_scale.py and bench/quant_probe.py measure the leg at corpus size;
  bench/scale_check.py now works on a copy so the frozen baseline stays frozen.

Measured on the frozen 165,973-atom corpus. bench/reports/DENSE.md, QUANT.md and
SCALE.md carry the numbers and the machine they were taken on.

Gates: 285 pytest, ruff clean, pyright 0 on the touched files, go build/vet/test
and gofmt clean, frontend build and eslint clean. mypy is 25 findings against the
parent's 24: the new one is "Skipping analyzing sqlite_vec: missing library stubs",
the same class as the two existing qwen_vl_utils lines, and the repo keeps no
type: ignore anywhere.

backend/src/ely_eye/config.py

@@ -18,6 +18,7 @@ class Settings(BaseSettings):
     kv_cache_dtype: str = "auto"
     planner_model_id: str = "Qwen/Qwen3.5-0.8B"
     embedding_model_id: str = "sentence-transformers/paraphrase-multilingual-MiniLM-L12-v2"
+    embedding_model_dir: Path | None = None
     clip_model_dir: Path | None = None
     vlm_model_dir: Path | None = None
     vlm_max_new_tokens: int = 96